I sometimes wonder if my career struggles are just part of being Gen X or if it’s more personal. I know that at least some of my setbacks are connected to my ex-husband. For a long time, I felt like I existed in his shadow—I was “his wife” rather than an individual with my own identity. His career required a lot of moving, and I always followed, taking whatever jobs I could find. Most lasted only a few years before I had to quit and relocate again. At times, I didn’t work at all, instead focusing on maintaining the home and supporting him. I even assisted with his financial career and later attempted working in insurance on my own, but I didn’t enjoy it despite the good pay.
Now, I find myself in a part-time job that brings me peace. It’s at a church, where I work in quiet, which my ADHD seems to appreciate. The downside? It doesn’t cover the bills.
I was set to start another job working with children who have disabilities—something I’ve done before and truly loved—but I’m unsure if I’m physically or emotionally up for it. Since having COVID in 2021, fighting cancer in 2024, undergoing carpal tunnel surgeries in 2025, and experiencing a wave of loss, I’ve been battling persistent fatigue. These burdens have stacked up, leaving me exhausted.
So, I think I’ll let that second job go and explore the possibility of a side gig instead. I’ve tried several in the past, none of which panned out, but maybe I just need to keep pushing forward. Ideally, I’d love to find something that sparks my creativity.
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